Men are designed to be visually stimulated by women's bodies.
Yes, that is the Truth as we keep being told.
My response: You know what, I'm pretty durn good looking (for a woman of my age, and for a woman not of my age) and I don't give a rat's ass how that bothers you. My being blessed with good genes and keeping fit is not the issue, and I sure as heck get sick of people acting as though their temptations are my problem.
How much easier would it be for you poor, struggling, overly-tempted men to deal with life as it is if you were to put the same work into the discipline (could we call it "maturity?") of finding alternative, healthy ways to cope with sexual tempation as you put into the work of telling everyone how sexually provacative you find women? Get over it.
Good looking women are not the problem. The problem is men who buy into the idea that they are powerless to find more effective ways to recognize and respond to temptation.
You, who glibly decree that men who are sexually tempted by other men are guilty of not excersing self-restraint, excuse your own temptation when it comes to women. Talk about a double standard.
Labels: Gender Issues