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At 6/21/2006 06:47:00 PM, Unknown
I would be curious about "testing it". I think it is just a long held bias. Women have come a long way, but I think that there is still, for whatever reason, a great stereotype that men have more knowledge, can speak better, whatever. Unfortunately, I think that these responses many times happen at a subconcious level. I know when I was studying for my BA there was a class that tested our stereotyping. I was appalled at my own responses. I think these things lurk in our heads. I will say though, once I was "made" aware, I was "more" aware of my own thinking.
At 6/21/2006 07:06:00 PM, CSDL
lydia,
i see this sort of stuff happen to women in technology all the time, its crazy.
The first thing i would ask is how does your style differ from his? Is he excited and convinced his idea is great while you are reserved and unsure? Those sorts of things can really come out in your post.
Next time, try posting as if your idea is be best thing since sliced bread and see if you get a better reply
but also ditto to julie on calling people out on it :-)
At 6/21/2006 07:47:00 PM, Lydia
The first thing i would ask is how does your style differ from his? Is he excited and convinced his idea is great while you are reserved and unsure?
Great question.
I reread my post, and it sounds pretty matter of fact to me. Not reserved, but not hyper either. I'm not the sort of person who gets overly excited about very many things.
Although maybe I should try it next time?
At 6/25/2006 09:07:00 PM, Don't I Know You?
once (uh, maybe more than once?) when i was cruisin the ooze as a male, i forgot myself and posted.
the guys didn't even say "welcome" and the women were totally out of this particular conversay so there wasnt' the usual gush of warm-fuzzies.
this is a bit off from what you are saying, lydia, but i think sometimes that people get so wrapped up in being the group that they don't even hear voices outside the ones they are attuned to hearing.
or quote your old posts and accuse the man of stealing your idea. that could be fun ;)
and yes i know exactly what you mean