One of our readers is married to someone who has been having panic and
anxiety attacks for the past several weeks. This person's spouse is not
interested in seeking professional treatment for it at the moment, and
our member doesn't know what do any longer.
Do you have any advice?
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I would suggest that the person first put the air mask on herself and focus on what she/he needs to do to feel centered, grounded and able to feel/think/act with clarity. It is possible taking a few hours or days away from the spouse and/or kids may be necessary to do this. It is a worthwhile investment!
In a clear frame of mind, I'd suggest being open to God and following what/where intuition leads.
David Burns has a great self-help book on panic/anxiety that the spouse may find helpful if he is open to working on issues independently but doesn't want to get involved with a professional. Another excellent book that I have found life-transforming with my own struggles with anxiety is A New Earth: Awakening to your Life's Purpose. It is coming from more of a spiritual than a religious angle, but the ideas about awareness and non-identification with thoughts/feelings/ego as the key to discovering one's true self and peace could be understood as accurate and life-giving even if one holds an evangelical view.
Good luck and wishing peace for both of you!