In what spirit to do we offer our gifts to God? How can we be the child we'd love to parent? What thoughts come to mind when you put yourself in God's shoes (or at least try ;)?
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Love CS Lewis-as usual he lays it all out so clearly. One of the things I love as a parent is watching my kids when they are experiencing life to the fullest, not please me or as a "gift" for me per se, but just doing what they were created to do. Whether its skateboarding, making a joke, or concentrating on a musical instrument, I love it when they have thrown themselves into life and are loving what they are doing. It brings me such joy and I have this feeling that I started something and somehow am a part of that. It is an unintentional gift to me. I wonder if God feels this way?
At 5/30/2007 08:30:00 AM, Linda
I think you're right, Kimberly (and you, too, Julie and Jemila).
It seems logical that the best and holiest things in our own parenting are a reflection or glimpse of God's toward us. Further, I believe that God is delighted in us much more often than we are even with our own children. In our human condition and discontent, we can sometimes miss the beauty of our children's gifts of living life to the full, but God does not. He is not bogged down by the things that cause us to misunderstand or overlook these gifts.
Years ago I felt that I had to be serious and pray and read my Bible a lot in order to be a "good child." But now I feel the smile of God when I'm hiking trails with my family, baking cookies, writing an email (or blog comment :-)), having a conversation with a friend, or reading a good book. I'm no longer earning brownie points with God because I know that my kids don't have to earn them with me. And surely, God is a better parent than me!
It reminds me of this passage from Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis (which btw is where the band Sixpence none the Richer got its name) -
"Every faculty you have, your power of thinking or of moving your limbs from moment to moment, is given to you by God. If you devoted every moment of your whole life exclusively to His service you could not give Him anything that was not in a sense His own already. So that when we talk of a man doing anything for God or giving anything to God, I will tell you what it is really like. It is like a small child going to his father and saying, 'Daddy, give me sixpence to buy you a birthday present.' Of course, the father does, and he is pleased with the child's present. It is all very nice and proper, but only an idiot would think that the father is sixpence to the good on the transaction. When a man has made these two discoveries, God can really get to work. It is after this that real life begins. The man is awake now..."